"Hatred ever kills, love never dies - such is the vast difference between the two. What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred."    - Mahatma Gandhi ; Unsourced Quotations

"I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain."    - James Baldwin ; Me and My House; Harper's (November 1955)